Growing up, and to this day I was never one of those girls who could walk into a lingerie store and find a bra that fit. And getting fitted for one was certainly not high on my to-do list. You see, I’m a part of what we like to call the itty-bitty-titty-committee. A club I wasn’t always so happy about being in. But as I’ve matured, I’ve come to appreciate my body in ways I never could when I was younger.
Growing up, we’re often distracted and concerned with what we don’t have that we overlook and forget to appreciate what we do. I mean I don’t blame us – the media and lingerie industry has a very antiquated way of presenting how women should look in lingerie. It’s unrealistic body #goals that I know I’ll personally never be able to achieve.
So where do we draw the line and do what feels best for us? That’s the beauty of self-love, isn’t it? Being mindful of who you are, and giving yourself the love and respect you deserve. It’s a process, a long winding road of discovery, figuring out what works and what doesn’t, in every vertical so that you are the happiest version of yourself.
While self-love can not be bought with a makeover or a new pair of shoes, there is a lot to say about finding a bra that gives you the confidence of feeling like the best version of yourself. Because when a bra fits badly, it shows all over your face. You can just feel it! There’s nothing quite like wearing a bra that makes you feel strong and confident, no matter what your shape or size.
The Perfect Fit
I discovered ThirdLove this year and my first thought was – how the hell have I NOT discovered them before?! So for those of you who are also discovering them through this post, get ready because this is sincerely the last bra you will never buy. They’ve completely re-thought the industry standard and created a system online (no more awkward dressing room fittings) to pin point exactly what size you are.
Skeptical at first, I felt like the process wouldn’t work. But there’s a reason they let you keep it and wear it for a month before buying. That’s because they’re that confident that you will love it as much as I do. It’s just the confidence that I needed to get in front of a camera to take these photos. If you click over to ThirdLove you can read up on the breast shape dictionary and the bra styling guide. You can also take the Fit Finder quiz to find your perfect fit. Added Bonus? once you finish the quiz, you get to try a ThirdLove bra for free for 30 days!
If you asked me a few years ago if I’d be comfortable taking boudoir photos, I would have scoffed out of insecurity. It was only until I saw my wedding boudoir photos of myself that I could find the beauty in capturing myself in a more vulnerable light. There’s something that’s deeply captivating about sharing a side of yourself with someone or (in my case) all of you, that feels very real. So thanks for listening and always being there for me. I cherish you reading this more than you know!
Photos by Cibelle Levi
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| ThirdLove Lace Balconette Bra Black | ThirdLove Lovely Lace Cheeky Black | ThirdLove Lace Balconette Bra Twilight | ThirdLove Lovely Lace Cheeky Underwear Twilight |
Thanks to ThirdLove for sponsoring this post.
This is amazing! I am doing the quiz right now and buying some beautiful new lingerie. Thanks for the tip 🙂
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Carla
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oh YAY!
This. is. incredible !! These photos! Gorgeous and need to get one of these bras stat…
You are so beautiful!
You have an amazing body and I am so happy that you realized that! I think everyone has their own amazing features and its important for everyone to realize them. Thank you again for being such an inspiration
wooow I love it.. is so classy and feminine!!!
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This post is so pretty, thank you for sharing! I’ll definitely be checking into this brand!
Lauren | prettyasapeonyblog.blogspot.com
Cannot wait to hear your thoughts Lauren!
xo,
Jenny
First of all… you look amazing and your thoughts on self love are beautifully said!
Second, I love ThirdLove! The fit is the best I have ever found and it truly changes your confidence when your foundation supports you and highlights your body in the best light.
Beautiful photos! Great post!!
xo Bryn
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Could not agree more! Great minds think alike Bryn!
xo,
Jenny
What beautiful pieces & you look like such a sex pot! I love the lavender one!
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So feminine and chic, love that one too!
xo,
Jenny
You look amazing! I love the twilight colored bra 🙂
xx, Hannah
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So beautiful, right?! I love the wide array of unique colors and textures!
xo,
Jenny
Such beautiful photos!!
xo
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Thanks lovely!
xo,
Jenny
You are absolutely beautiful Jenny! Love how the photos came out! Looking great! http://www.creativesis.com
Thanks so much lovely!
xo,
Jenny
This is my favorite set of images you’ve posted. Well actually tied w a yellow floral number you posted in I believe Italy? Anywho the lighting & makeup is a dream. Stunning girl
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First off, these picture absolutely stunning! I love everything about the way the photos are styled to the lacey bra details. Boudoir definitely looks good on you! Secondly, it’s truly difficult to find that perfect fit with a bra since we’re all so different. This brand seems really customizeable while maintaining a beautiful style! I’ll definitely have to check it out.
Thanks for sharing! <3
XO
Style by Pear
Yes Pear, cannot wait to hear what you think!
xo,
Jenny
What a beautiful set of photos!
Love the lace pink set
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Amazing! you look incredible in that piece. i love the photos.
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I love these images! You look like a Parisian goddess.
Bisous,
Daley
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These little lovelies are gorgeous. Annnnnd so is the makeup look! Bronze goddess suits you well…please share the deets darling!
xo,
Kelly
I love this post about loving yourself and the body you are in! You look absolutely beautiful 🙂
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Where are the white pants from!!
omg! so sexyy 🙂
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xo,
Jenny
Beautiful post. Where are the white pants from? I’ve been searching for some just like that!
Love this post! As a lingerie aficionado and member of the itty committee myself, a lot resonates here! The photos are gorgeous, a very vintage vibe – sex kitten a la Bardot! ❤️
Thanks so much Antoniette! Always channeling those Bardot girl vibes!
xo,
Jenny
Oh my goodness, girl these shots are seriously beautiful!! Love how they tell a story, simply gorgeous! x
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So glad you noticed! Means the world!
xo,
Jenny
Perfect!
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Thanks Ewa
xo,
Jenny
I am going on ThirdLove’s website right now! I have smaller boobs as well, so I am always looking for perfect fits without the padding.
Love this post!
ohsodeco.com
Yes! They’re a diamond in the rough!
xo,
Jenny
Yes! can’t wait to hear what you think!
xo,
Jenny
You look amazing! Such beautiful shots! I loved it!
P.S. I need those white high waisted pants.
Yes! They’re so flowy and perfect for spring!
xo,
Jenny
These are BEAUTIFUL pictures! You are gorgeous. I am definitely going to go check out ThirdLove right now. Thank you for sharing. 🙂
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So glad you love them – I feel the same way!
xo,
Jenny
This is a beyond beautiful set. Different for you but still feminine and delicate. Stunning! I love it.
Yes, definitely a little bit different!
xo,
Jenny
You are a class act Jenny darling. Great post, elegantly sexy but with a sweet, confidence. Love love love ❤️
You’re the best — I so appreciate your support love
xo,
Jenny
SO gorg!! I am just loving the new vibe that I have beens seeing in your photos a lot lately! Very sexy but still girly <3
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Love this post so much! It’s hard with small boobs to find a good fit but I will have to try them out. Both of the sets are so pretty!
Couldn’t agree more – you have to try ThirdLove!
xo,
Jenny
What a great post. I plan on taking the quiz now! I find bra shopping stressful and never seem to get the perfect fit, even after being measured. I miss my smaller breasts, they fit into anything!
Blush & Pearls by Angela
This couldn’t be less stressful – dying to hear your thoughts!
xo,
Jenny
So subtle sweet and sexy style of lingerie. Love the details, fitting and cut of the brassiere. Simply so classy beautiful! 🙂
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Thanks for your support love
xo,
Jenny
Love this post, Jenny! I am too a member of this committee. The photos are absolutely gorgeous!
x Tali
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So glad you loved the images!
xo,
Jenny