Nyc & Me

NYC & Me: My First Couple Months as a New Yorker

LOCATION:  New York, New York

And just like that, it’s already August 8th! Where does the time go? Today officially marks two months since we “moved in” to our New York abode…although all that stands is a bed, one couch and a TV. All good though, because what’s to come for our home is going to be so good and I can’t wait to share more details on the decor. But if you’ve been watching my Instagram Stories, you know we’ve partnered with one of my favorite home furnishing companies. Let’s just say it’s going to be New York Sophisticated meets Parisian chic! Mid-October is our timeline for sharing, but stay tuned to Stories for design updates here and there.

I owed you an NYC & Me update months ago, as my intention was to write a story about “My First Month As A New Yorker,” but I guess my second month as a New Yorker will have to suffice. So for those of you who are wondering, how is it living in the big city? Well, let’s just say, I can’t believe I didn’t move sooner.

Life, for me, feels so real here. I finally feel at home, with my Freddie and Margo. I am adapting well to the warmer temps and fast-paced environment; it’s actually insanely motivating. Each morning I am up at sunrise with the Empire State Building right outside my window, as if a symbol and a daily reminder as to where I am, why I’m here and how far I’ve come to get here. Sure, the pieces are still coming together, but I’ve never felt more content and more at peace in a place than I am in my NYC home.

Now, what are a few things that I’ve learned in the first few months of living here…my first few months as a New Yorker?

I work out a lot more here

Fitness centers are everywhere, with my favorite three, Orange Theory, Pilates on the Square and Yoga Maya being a stone’s throw from my apartment. Between that and all the walking, I feel like I am actually in the best shape of my life.

Having a social life is expensive!

Way more than I thought it would be. Don’t get me wrong, my extrovert self actually lives for getting together with friends for dinner and drinks, but New York is expensive. A way I’ve curbed spending a bit is to have dinners at my home or plan dinner at a friends – everyone contributes. Rooftops are rampant here and friends look for any excuse to hang and gather on one. I wonder what we will do when the winter comes….

Look both ways

Oh my god, bike lanes scare the shit out of me here. People fly down them, and when you’re constantly walking – as I mentioned I have been – you have to be alert at all times! It kind of reminds me of when I first moved to LA, how people would blast through left turn red lights. (If you’ve been to LA, you know what I am talking about. It’s a thing.)

I’m inspired to cook

Maybe it’s our new and improved kitchen, but we’ve (by we, I mean Freddie) have been cooking up a storm! I would say 4/7 nights a week we’re either grilling on the roof or cooking. With me as his sous chef, of course. We hit up the farmer’s market in Union Square at least two times a week, which may be another element that’s adding to my overall, beaming feeling.

That’s all for now! I hope you love this series as much as I do. It’s my little ode to the ultimate New Yorker, Carrie Bradshaw, and her columnist ways.

It’s my goal to share at least one NYC & Me article a month so please sound off below. What do you want to know about NYC? Beauty spots? Restaurants? Even more shopping (though I did cover that here). Let me know!

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18 Comments

  • Roses for Fridays | by mia  • 

    The fast paced life is always an interesting lifestyle, so much to do and so many things to see. I am very happy to hear you are adapting well, and the truth is as long as you have your love ♥️ones with you, it really does make it a big difference too. Happy New Yorker! ♥️♥️

    ♥️ROSES FOR FRIDAYS ♥️ | by mia | A Creative Lifestyle Blog

  • Simply Gharib | by Nora  • 

    I love my city. You won’t ever want to leave! I’m glad to hear you’re adjusting to Nyc.
    It can get expensive to go out, I agree dinner at home is the best option with friends. But I’ve found a few fun ways to go out and not spend too much.

    http://www.simplygharib.com

  • Manon B  • 

    This look is so wonderful ! I love so much your shoes !

    Xx Manon B

  • definitely eating out / drinking in NYC adds up more than in other cities! $20 for a cocktail sometimes… certainly makes me drink less I guess! haha

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  • Joyce Ceron  • 

    I recently moved to a new apartment in Chelsea and it’s like I’m falling in love with this city all over again. Enjoyed reading this article so much – I can relate to every single point you made 🙂

    Ps. I think I might have seen you walking in Chelsea!

  • BeingIsabella  • 

    Okay first of all, this outfit is one of my favorites yet! It resonates all the happy times of summer and the combination of the green and off white is perfect. Also, those shoes are fabulous – I love the tortoise shell print heel! As for New York, I can definitely relate on many levels. Especially it being expensive. I tend to use cash more when I go out because this way I’m limited to how much I can spend and I won’t go all out the way I would if I used my credit card. Crossing the streets can be a hassle but let me tell you dear, in China it’s a whole other story. You pretty much have to run for your life across the street or stop in the middle because there’s no break in the cars and bikes to stop 😉

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  • I just moved to the city too, almost 4 months now (!!) but under different circumstances, aka recent college grad living with 2 roommates in the east village! I prefer your circumstances haha but I know my time will come.
    I have been trying to find what you are talking about, this feeling of this is where i feel at home or most myself and it’s been hard. It doesn’t help i moved here from Paris and I had definitely and immediately felt that there and I thought i would here too! Still excited to find my footing in the city and follow along your NYC & me diaries!
    Love the outfit and the street you shot on (10th between 2nd and 3rd) is my favorite street in the whole city!! It is my dream place to live, one day !

  • Aimee Guzman  • 

    I would love to know what neighborhood you picked and how you like it so far!

  • Ewa Macherowska  • 

    Love this look so much! x

    http://www.evdaily.blogspot.com

  • Peggy D  • 

    A friend of mine has an Instagram account @queenoffreeba that is devoted to everything free in New York. Yoga, food, shows, events, pop up shops – it’s a lot of fun to explore everything she discovers, and it certainly can help the bank account!

  • caroline  • 

    NYC suits you ! You have the perfect NY style 🙂

    http://www.pardonmyobsession.com/